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You thought you'd left all that dating game behind you when you got
married, and now here you are again: back in play. Or, perhaps you've
been dating for years, and even though you're ready to settle down,
it seems as though you just can't find the right person.
And dating isn't as much fun as it should be.
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You've tried all kinds of ways to meet partners; bars and clubs, dating agencies and dating through personal ads, websites, blind-dates and many a painful dinner party with well meaning friends. All you have to show for it is a string of first dates and a few short lived flings... |
Meeting people isn't hard. Meeting the right person (and
keeping them) is.
Well, I hate to tell you, but 90% of the time, when a person isn't
successful at dating, it's usually their own fault. And the root
cause is often insecurity, lack of focus and lack of self-esteem.
Here are some tough questions to ask of yourself before
you seriously begin dating:
- Would I rather be by myself than in a relationship that doesn't
make me happy?
- Am I prepared to make the commitments of time and energy required?
- Am I looking for a partner to "add-value" to my life,
or just for fun?
- Do I have a healthy enough respect for myself to even be dating?
- Do I know my own value? (I'll give you a clue: if the answer
isn't "high" you've got some serious work to do!)
- Am I in good shape physically?
- Do I take care of myself?
- Am I confident enough not to "compete?"
- Is the rest of my life in good order?
I suspect that there will be more than a few "no's" sprinkled
among the "yes'."
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