You thought you'd left all that behind when you got married, and now here you are again, back in play, dating over forty!
Or, perhaps you've been dating for years, and though ready to settle down, you just can't seem to find the right person.
And dating just isn't as much fun as it should be, is it?
You've tried all kinds of ways to meet partners; bars and clubs, dating agencies and personal ads, websites, blind dates and many a painful dinner party with well meaning friends, but all you have to show for it is a string of first dates and a few short lived flings...
Meeting people isn't hard. Meeting the right person (and keeping them) is.
Well, I hate to tell you this, but 90% of the time, when a person isn't successful
in dating, it's their own fault.
And the root of the problem is insecurity,
lack of self—confidence
and too little self—respect.
Here are some tough questions for you:
- Do I have a healthy enough self—respect to even
be dating, or do I need to "fix" myself first?
- Do I know my value? (I'll give you a clue: if the answer
isn't "high" you've got some serious work to do!)
- Am I in good shape physically?
- Am I confident and secure enough, not to "compete"?
- Is the rest of my life in good order?
- Am I prepared to invest the time and energy required
in my partnership, or have I got lazy?
- Would it be better to be single than in a relationship
that doesn't make me happy?
- Am I looking for a partner to add real value to my life,
or just for social reasons?
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